Early Intervention. I didn’t have a clue what those words meant the first time I heard them or just how crucial “Early Intervention” would be for our son and our family. The earlier you get help the better. Even if you aren’t sure your child needs it…do it. Worst case scenario, your child gets an early boost in life. Best case scenario, the team will greatly help to build a solid developmental foundation for your child.
We started shortly after Landon turned 1. He failed his developmental screening at the Pediatrician. And I’m talking, failed it across the board. Globally delayed, the Dr said. It was terrifying!
When we were first referred to a Feeding Therapist, I foolishly thought we would go see her a couple of times, she would get us on track, and we’d be on our way. Boy oh boy, I couldn’t have been more wrong, but it turns out that was a blessing in disguise. I’m glad I didn’t know how long the road would be back then. I was already plenty overwhelmed. We didn’t need to know we would take many step backs before we moved forward. Or, that we would still be deep in the struggle years later.
So, Landon was evaluated for Early Intervention and it was determined he would need PT, OT, Feeding and eventually Speech Therapy. Seemed like a lot for a little baby and he did not love it, at first.
The first person we met was AJ, who turned out to be a lifesaver. She was his Physical Therapist and team lead. She came in, took control, and helped to right our ship, so to speak. I’m sure she could see I was floundering. From there, we continued to build our team. Most of his therapists have been great but we had to weed some out. They have to be a good fit for you and your child.
You will lean heavily on your team, especially in the early days. Some days I don’t know who they helped more, Landon or me. They are a wealth of knowledge and you will need it all before you get your degree in Autism. HA…as if that’s possible when the curriculum is constantly changing.
They are also your emotional support as a Mom. They understand the daily struggle and the toll it takes on a family. We have had many “therapy” sessions for me as they are working with Landon.
We live in AZ and it has an incredible Early Intervention program. Right now, check out your state’s program and apply TODAY. The process takes time so don’t delay. If your child qualifies after an evaluation, you will get tons of help at no cost to you. Yes, I said no cost…none. So, don’t let financial worries keep you from getting help for your child.
Build a team you love and they will quickly grow to love your son just as much. They become like family so choose wisely. You won’t find them without a lot of work but it’s worth it. They are some of the most kind and caring people you will ever meet. If they are anything less, keep searching. You need to feel 100% comfortable with the people coming into your home and spending time with your child.
Bottom line…IT TAKES A VILLAGE. You don’t have to do this alone. In fact, you can’t do it alone. Get the help that is available and take some of that load off your shoulders. You will be amazed at the progress your child makes and you will be a better Mom for it.